Dating can be an adventure filled with excitement—but when alopecia enters the picture, it might feel like you're lugging around a suitcase of "what-ifs." What if my bald look isn't appealing? What if I face judgment before even saying hello? Sound familiar? Fear not; you're in good company! When I first ventured into online dating, I was intimidated. The digital realm can be harsh, laden with filters and snap judgments. Initially, my profile showcased a mix of looks—some wit

Ahhh, alopecia—my ride-or-die companion for over twenty years! We've seen it all together—from curious stares to those well-meaning (but oh-so-awkward) comments. Each encounter has been a reminder of how much hair loss myths shape how others see us and how we see ourselves. Embracing my baldness didn't happen with the snap of a finger — it took courage, soul-searching, and unlearning many beauty "rules" I never signed up for. But I'll never forget the  day. The day I strolled

On October 17, 2023, I woke up to a “normal” day filled with too many snooze-button smacks, a mad dash to the shower, and a barely made-it exit from my house. But something wasn’t normal about this day, and I knew it as soon as I closed the door behind me. No wig. For the first time in my 20-year relationship with wigs, I had decided to leave home without one, heading to work unapologetically and fully bald. To say wigs have been my safety blanket is an understatement. I've h